Grief is one of the most personal things in the world. So is the way people choose to carry it.
For as long as people have lost those they love, they’ve looked for ways to keep them close – not just in memory, but physically. Something to hold. Something to wear. Something that says: this person mattered, and I’m not ready to let go of them completely.
Memorial jewellery has become one of the most thoughtful ways to do that. Not as a replacement for grief, but as a quiet companion to it. If you’re looking for something for yourself, or trying to find the right gift for someone who’s lost someone – this guide covers everything you need to know.

What Types of Memorial Jewellery Are There?
The term covers a wide range of options, and understanding the differences makes it much easier to choose. Here’s an honest overview of what’s out there.
Ashes jewellery is exactly what it sounds like – a small amount of cremated ashes is incorporated into the piece, usually sealed inside a pendant or set into resin. Specialist makers like Inscripture and Hold Upon Heart do this beautifully. It’s a deeply personal option, but it does require sending physical remains to a maker, which isn’t right for everyone.
Fingerprint jewellery uses an ink or clay impression of a fingerprint to create an engraved pendant or charm. It’s typically used to preserve the fingerprint of someone who has passed – often arranged in advance, or in the immediate aftermath of a loss. Again, specialist makers handle this and the results can be stunning. The process takes time and involves sending impressions by post.
Handwriting jewellery takes a sample of someone’s handwriting – a note, a birthday card, a signature – and recreates it as an engraving on a pendant, bracelet, or ring. Meaningful if you have something written in their hand that you want to preserve.
Photo jewellery is the most straightforward option. You choose a photograph – of the person, or of a moment you shared – and it’s sealed inside a pendant. No physical items to send. No specialist process. Just a photo you already have, turned into something you can wear every day.
For many people, especially when loss is recent and overwhelming, this simplicity matters a lot.
Why a Photo Necklace Works So Well as Memorial Jewellery
A photo projection necklace is a little different from a traditional locket. There’s no visible photo on the outside – the pendant looks like regular jewellery to anyone who doesn’t know the story. The photo is hidden inside, sealed beneath the surface. You can see it by looking closely into the front of the stone, or by shining a light through the back, which projects the image onto a surface.

That discretion is something a lot of people find really important when they’re grieving. They want to carry the person with them – but they don’t always want to explain why, or invite questions, or be visibly marked as someone who is mourning. A photo necklace lets you keep that connection private. It’s yours.
The other reason it works so well is how easy it is. When you’re going through a difficult time, the last thing you want is a complicated ordering process. You find a photo you love – a candid moment, a favourite portrait, a picture that captures exactly who they were – upload it, and it becomes part of the necklace. That’s it.
Choosing the Right Style
There are a few different necklace styles that work particularly well as memorial pieces, depending on what feels right.
The Halo Photo Necklace
The Halo Photo Necklace is the most elegant option in the range. A central photo stone is surrounded by a halo of smaller stones in a pendant setting – it has the look and feel of a proper keepsake piece without being overly ornate. The stone setting gives it a timeless quality that works beautifully as a memorial. If you want something that feels special and considered, this is it.

The Crossed Heart Photo Necklace
The Crossed Heart Photo Necklace is the most popular style and for good reason – it’s classic, versatile, and the heart silhouette gives it a gentle emotional resonance without being heavy-handed. It works as an everyday necklace, which means it gets worn consistently rather than saved for special occasions.
The Heart Photo Locket
The Heart Photo Locket has a more traditional feel – a proper locket in a heart shape that opens to reveal the photo inside. If the person you’re buying for loves the idea of a locket specifically, this is the one. It has an heirloom quality to it.
Circle and Bar Styles
For those who prefer something minimal and understated, simpler geometric pendant styles offer a cleaner look. The photo is still inside, but the exterior is deliberately low-key. Good for people who don’t typically wear much jewellery, or who want the memorial aspect to feel private and unannounced.
Buying Memorial Jewellery as a Gift
If you’re here because someone you love is grieving and you want to do something meaningful – that instinct is a good one. Memorial jewellery is one of the most considered gifts you can give in this situation, precisely because it acknowledges the loss rather than tiptoeing around it.
A few things worth thinking about:
Choosing the photo. If you have access to a photo you know they’d love – one that genuinely captures the person they’ve lost – it’s worth choosing it yourself and ordering the necklace ready-made. That removes a task from them at a time when even small decisions feel hard. If you’re not sure, a gift card lets them choose when they’re ready.
Timing. There’s no rule about when memorial jewellery is appropriate. It works as an immediate comfort gift, but it’s just as meaningful weeks or months later when the rawness of loss has shifted into something quieter. Don’t feel like you’ve missed a window.
What to write. Keep it simple. You don’t need to find the perfect words – nobody does. Something like: “I wanted you to be able to carry them with you” is enough. What matters is that the gesture shows you’re thinking of them, and that you understand what they’ve lost
The Photo You Choose Matters
Whatever style you go for, the photo is the heart of it. A few practical things that make a real difference:
- Use the clearest, most natural photo you have. Heavy filters or edited images can lose detail when printed at a small size.
- A portrait or close-up works better than a group photo – the image needs to be identifiable at a small scale.
- Candid photos often work better than posed ones. Something that captures a real moment, or the way a person actually looked day-to-day, tends to feel more meaningful over time.
- Square-crop the image before you upload it for the best result.
One Last Thing
Grief doesn’t follow a schedule, and neither does the right time to do something like this. Whether you’re buying for yourself or for someone else, there’s no rush and no wrong moment.
Browse the full memorial necklace collection and take your time choosing. If you have any questions about photo quality, styles, or what to expect from the process, the team is always happy to help – just get in touch.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is the best memorial jewellery in the UK?
The best option depends on what you’re looking for. If you want something that involves physical remains, specialist makers offer ashes pendants and fingerprint jewellery. If you want something simpler – no items to send, no lengthy process – a photo necklace is the most accessible choice. You upload a favourite photo and it’s sealed inside a pendant you can wear every day.
Can you put ashes in a photo necklace?
No – a photo projection necklace uses a micro-printed photograph rather than physical remains. If you’re looking for ashes jewellery specifically, specialist makers like Inscripture handle that process. A photo necklace is a separate option that works from a digital photo alone.
What photo should I use for a memorial necklace?
Use the clearest, most natural photo you have of the person. A close-up portrait works better than a group shot, and candid photos tend to feel more meaningful than posed ones. Avoid heavily edited or filtered images – the more true-to-life, the better it will look inside the pendant.
Is a photo necklace a good grief gift?
It’s one of the most thoughtful options available. The hidden photo element means it’s personal without being on show – the wearer can carry the memory privately, without being asked about it. It’s particularly well-suited to people who want to feel connected without the grief being visible to others.
How long does memorial jewellery take to arrive?
Allure Jewellery photo necklaces are made to order, so allow 1-2 weeks from placing your order to delivery.























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